Love in the bedroom forever changed after Peter committed to marriage with me. (That word "committed" is important.) After the commitment was sanctified with a rite of marriage and dedication of our commitment to God, there was a significant change in our sexual sharing. We both noticed a deeper, more spirit-filled experience when we shared the touch of our sexual expression.
In other words, the best sexual experiences I've ever had have been with the person who was honored to make that commitment with me!
Then and only then did I believe that I was absolutely loved and totally adored and valued beyond measure. Confidently knowing these things slowly laid the groundwork I needed to be willing to open myself shamelessly to Peter and to that Love. That Love is God in the bedroom with you.
We are not talking technique here. We are talking about our ability to give of ourselves abundantly. That Love is the radical Love that Jesus teaches. If we hold onto even the smallest piece of grudge or judgement, Love cannot fill us entirely so that we may give the gift of love abundantly. What are we holding back for? What are we holding back from? Holding back is not the love that Jesus taught. "I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another." (John 13.34 NRSV) Jesus loved us fully and expansively and commanded us to do the same.
Let me show you that God is in your bedroom. You may intimately touch your equal partner and thereby glorify God. We are not asked to give ourselves away. We are required to give our love away. Your Self remains whole and complete as two spirits touch.
Authenticity. Intimacy. Unity.
Make Unity Holy.
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